Said 5 year old has ASD (this may or may not be relevant but I didn't want to drip feed)
Another neighbour told me that the mum, dad and ds had been spotted in the hours several times for periods of about 20 mins. They told her they were playing with the cats.
Their ds however told my 9 year old dd that he played with ds1's toys (one in particular is stored in the wardrobe so they must have had a good mooch) and that he had played with the mickey mouse toy that was in my wardrobe (this was hidden for ds's birthday which was when we were away).
He said that he had watched tv on ds's bed and that one night he slept in dd's bed and his mummy and daddy slept in my bed.
What the actual fuck????
Do I have to confront them? They won't be feeding the bloody cats again, that's for sure.
Yes, I think you have to confront them. But do it in a "you'd never guess what Little Jimmy told me you got up to when we were on holiday!" sort of way. But why would they stay at yours if they live next door? It doesn't make a whole load of sense.
Thats sounds frightening! Dont even know where to start, if you ask them they'll be sure to deny it and if you call their 5yr old to witness, i reckon he'll be too scared. If you keep quiete about it, it will eat you up.
But then i suppose there's no harm asking the 5yr old to see if he repeats his account again and then asking the parents, you never know........