Not for me but for my DSD. She’s 10 and has just come to us last week after not seeing her for 7 weeks thanks to lockdown and myself and OH having underlying health conditions.
Before the lockdown it was obvious that she was starting to ‘fill out’ but we put this down to starting puberty, hips widening, breasts forming etc. She’s put on quite a lot of weight since she’s been away from us. I think not being able to go out much and not having the school routine hasn’t helped with this.
We usually have her every weekend and most of the school holidays as she lives 70 miles away and this is the most we can manage to see her reasonably. She’ll be staying with us for a month at least.
We eat healthily and I cook from scratch 90% of the time. I don’t want to deny her the occasional treats but she expects them several times a day and will have a fit if we say no. We’ve tried to encourage her to snack on fruit but she refuses. She’s getting slightly better with eating veggies which is great.
I had weight issues at DSD’s age but I was teased about it by my family and it really affected me. We would never make this obvious to DSD but I don’t want her to get to a point where it severely affects her self confidence (like it did with me - cripplingly) or cause health problems further down the line. We’re just trying to do our best at this end, her mum really struggles with her behaviour at home. She said that she will scream and trash the house if she doesn’t get chocolate pancakes for breakfast. Her mum is on her own so doesn’t have the back up of a partner etc to help.
As well as trying to encourage healthy eating and exercise, are there any other ways in which we can try to bring this under control? I don’t think the aim is weight loss but more making sure she doesn’t put any more weight on.
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Dealing with overweight children. What’s the best way to tackle this please?
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Eskdale2004 · 18/05/2020 11:01
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