At the risk of sounding stupid here as I know it’s part of having children but my 2nd child has just turned 5 months and I’m so unhappy with my body I just wanted to know other people’s stories. First dc is nearly 8 so a huge gap and I was much younger then but eventually my body went back to “normal”. My stomach was always relatively flat although I have big hips and a bum and big legs which I hated, my stomach was ok and not toned but wasn’t flabby, now I feel like all my muscle is gone under my tummy and it’s just the big overhang and I know I should shut up and put up or do something about it but having two children and dp works away doesn’t give me a lot of opportunity to go to gym etc (excuses)! Did anyone else’s body take a while but finally get slightly better as I know it’ll never be the same as before. I know how stupid it is for me to be focusing on this and more to worry about in life but my confidence is just shot and it’s affecting me and my relationship. I don’t want to go out n feel I look terrible in everything as I don’t know what to wear now for my new shape
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