My gorgeous DD (14.5) has become quite severely overweight. She is tall and heavily built (5' 11", with broad shoulders, hips, thighs etc), but has become clearly and undeniably overweight. She was over 16 stone when I was last allowed to know her weight, though in a way the actual weight is irrelevant: what is undeniable is that she is carrying an immense amount of extra body fat.
So as not to drip feed...
She has always liked her food, ever since she was a tiny baby (well, she was never tiny - 11lb at birth, off the charts for length and head circ). However, it wasn't a problem when she was younger as she just had to eat the same things as the rest of us.
The problem has arisen since she started secondary school, and has had access to corner shops, Tesco Express etc on her way to school, and also spends time going to town with her friends. She has a set allowance per month (£20), so doesn't have acres of spare money - but she evidently convinces friends to either buy food for her or to give her money for it. I know this because I find wrappers stuffed under her bed, in her pillow cases, etc. She also gets friends to give her money so she can catch the bus to school and back, rather than walk (it's about 2 miles away, so just a bit too far for her liking).
I think part of the problem is that she started comfort eating when XH and I split up, and doesn't know how to stop.
She knows she is overweight, and is very unhappy about it - but the lure of crisps, Coke, sweets, chocolate brownies etc is too much for her to resist.
At my house, and at her dad's house, she gets decent home-cooked food and moderate portions. We have fruit readily available, though don't have puddings because XH and I don't like them particularly. I don't have any sweet stuff in the house because I don't have a sweet tooth (Pringles would be a different matter, though ).
I am 5 foot and tiny all round, and am also pretty fit (walk/cycle everywhere within about 10 miles of home). XH is 6' 1", big built but slim (again, pretty fit). DS (16) is 6', also pretty fit, and like a beanpole, just for context. Though he doesn't half know how to rub this fact in.
DD has just been in floods of tears, asking me to sign her up for SW/WW. But I have no idea whether either of them would be any good for her. Please, please could anyone advise me? And I would, obviously, welcome any ideas at all which might help her. She is so sad (she is also bullied about it), and I would do anything to help her - though I know she is really the only one who can help herself.
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Unwiederbringlich · 29/10/2018 19:34
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