Ok this is bit of a dilemma, two years ago a very close male friend of mine suddenly said whilst he was very drunk 'look at the f ing state of you. You used to be so skinny and gorgeous now look at you.
I was not drunk and I was quite gobsmacked. In fact devastated. A further slight in the same evening when a group photo was taken and the same friends wife laughed hysterically at the photo and commented look at the size of your arm. They are quite a sarcastic pair and being blunt is quite normal for them. Both were slaughtered However the incident was so hurtful to me I have actively avoided the pair of them for two years now, missing many social events in the process.
Last week I was invited by another of our friends to a very glam party. I know this couple will be there. I am very torn whether or not to go. The last event really traumatised me. I'm still a size 14 like I was that night two years ago. I feel like my weight will be the main thing on my mind. To go or not to go that is the question.
Sometimes meeting up with old friends when you've changed and gained weight can be difficult.
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Lovepolkadots · 09/06/2018 18:21
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