So I'm trying to diet as have a few stone to lose, I'm unhappy with my size and I want to be healthier.
The problem is dh is sabotaging my diet choices.
I am the earner and dh is a sahd. As such he cooks dinner during the week.
When I'm at work I control what I eat and make good choices such as homemade Soup or salad for lunch, fruit and healthy snacks. However my dh will not take into account my diet for our main meal. He says why should him and the kids have to eat like they are on a diet. I.e we live on pasta in this house (dd2 a fussy eater and pasta is a fave, dh is Portuguese so again pasta a big staple for him) he will also pop to the shops to get his fags (don't ask that's a whole other subject!) and bring back chocolate or biscuits because he knows I like them and he thinks he is doing something nice for me but it is in fact just detailing my diet. When I've mentioned this to him re the chocolate and biscuits he says just don't eat them which is valid enough except I have zero control around them and just end up eating them.
We also have a weekly takeaway which I would like to cut out and make monthly but he is insistent we keep this 'treat' up as he and the kids like it and if I don't want it then don't have any. Again I have zero control and obviously eat it!
Weekday meals he cooks in fats never uses the fry light I brought as he prefers to use olive oil. Won't buy light cheese. Piles my plate up when I've repeatedly asked him not too. I would like to replace the carbs with a healthier alternative for me but he won't do it and won't make a separate portion for me (that's fair enough i don't expect him to make 2 meals)
Does anyone else have this with their dh? How do you get your diet to work in a house with a partner and kids who have no interest in eating healthier?
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Struggling with diet due to dh
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Nottsangel2015 · 11/05/2018 10:39
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