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DH complaining after 3 days exercise

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Cocopopsrule · 04/01/2017 12:53

We agreed we'd exercise together and he's complaining after 3 days it's too hard and frustrating and 5 days a week routine is too much going from nothing. We're doing fitness blender. I really want to do this. But if I don't do it with him he won't do it. And we're both unfit and overweight. First 2 days were fine but today he cant keep up and started moaning. Shall I just get on without him or look for a 3 days a week program we can do together. How often do you all exercise?

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JellyTeapot · 04/01/2017 13:01

Just crack on without him, don't let his lack of motivation stop you from reaching your goals. Plus, there's nothing worse than a negative nancy killing your endorphin buzz during a good workout Grin

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tribpot · 04/01/2017 13:03

Five days a week is a lot from a standing (sitting) start. Why don't you agree that he joins you every other session?

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WriterNeedsHelp2017 · 04/01/2017 13:05

Definitely keep going without him! Ask him how he's going to feel when you show so much more improvement than him in a month's time.

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WatchingFromTheWings · 04/01/2017 13:06

5 days a week is a bit much for a beginner. 2-3 is enough to start then build up as fitness increases.

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Cocopopsrule · 04/01/2017 13:36

Ok. I'll ask him what he wants to do and say I want to continue on the plan I choose and he's free to join less regularly or do his own program

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JennyOnAPlate · 04/01/2017 13:56

5 days a week sounds like a lot for someone new to exercise. I need to start exercising too but if you told me I had to do 5 (consecutive?) days it'd put me off completely!

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