is it me ?

(4 Posts)
user1473494811 Sat 10-Sep-16 09:17:46

No matter how I try to lose weight I feel that I am being sabotaged at every turn. DH every now and then will comment on how I was a nice weight when we married and now I am not (like he was such a great catch!) . These comment send me straight to the biscuit tin because I get so bloody mad. When I do manage to lose weight he starts asking me if I want chippy etc. Not only that I am sick of being walked all over, every time I try to do something nice I always end up worse off. Rant over.

60schild Sat 10-Sep-16 10:28:44

If you want to lose weight remember you are doing it for YOU! It has nothing to do with DH. You decide what you eat! What is your motivation for losing weight? It'll be you that feels healthier/more comfortable in certain clothes/more confident (if that's an issue). Sod what D H thinks! Good luck.

user1473494811 Mon 12-Sep-16 11:04:59

Thanks, I have come to the same conclusion. I am going to start being a little bit selfish instead of running around for everyone else. Today I have started healthy eating again and will not let anyone know that I am on diet.Also I have decided to squirrel money away for myself. I have to say that it feels really good having secret plans...........

60schild Fri 23-Sep-16 16:58:59

Hope you're getting on ok.

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