My sister had weight-loss surgery today. She is 58 BMI of 38.9 , has sleep apnea caused by obesity. She has spent 3 yrs at weight watchers, lost 3 stone in first 18 months but completely stalled. 8 yrs ago she lost 6 stone and put back on 8. She has been skinny all her life until about 12 years ago where a course of steroids seem to have 'Kickstarter her appetite into over drive.
Hobbies were fell walking and sailing, none of which she can do now. Her knees are shot and her self esteem so poor, she doesn't go out socially at all. Her weight gain is so huge, (7 stone) she is convinced people will whisper. She has gone from active vivacious attractive woman, to a static blob (her own words) who doesn't move because it hurts ! she has a loving DH and dcs who really just love her for her and want her to be happy. So have supported this decision.
So she has jumped through all the hoops and seen the psychologist and today is the day. She is out of surgery and feeling 'fine'.
So my reason for posting is this. Why, on a huge forum like MN is their barely any mention of WLS. and when someone does post, there are no replies ? There are God knows how many people on list for Bariatric surgery at the moment, 85 % are women, so why no mention on here of their experiences.? Almost every diet ever invented is discussed here (some of them far more scientifically questionable than WLS) and NICE recognise Bariatric surgery as the most effective long term sustainable weight-loss method available at this moment. (I know it doesn't work for all but it is hugely effective for most) and the results aren't all about looking better, the loss achieved brings people out of the 'likely to have a stroke/heart attack/get cancer' range.. So why not discuss it ?
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Marilynsbigsister · 01/08/2016 22:39
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