Hi, I have a nearly 11 year old daughter who has always been very big for her age. She is now 5 foot 3 and overweight. Her dad and I both have healthy BMI's, but my mum and brother have always been much bigger.
She is a very hungry child who seems to want to eat all the time and always says she's hungry. She also has learning difficulties, poor co-ordination and social anxiety, making it very hard to find any kind of activity to keep her fit. Even PE at school she usually sits out of it and refuses to take part.
She will only eat veg if it's liquidised and not recognisable, so I tend to do soups quite a lot, but she always overeats bread with it. As she won't eat unless it's on the end of bread.
Her dad has got her into the habit of having 'munchies' to films, TV programs or just a treat for any reason. It's now so fixed in her that she will whine constantly that she's hungry while watching anything on TV, even if she's only just had dinner. She is very much a creature of habit.
I've tried so many times to try and help her to control her weight but I always end up acting like the 'food police'. Constantly having to follow her around making sure she's not eating what she shouldn't be. It's especially hard at her grandmas house, where she goes regularly. I've tried many times speaking to her Grandma but it goes in one ear and out the other. She has loads of unhealthy food in the house and she will say "ask your mummy" but then it's always me saying no. She tends to say to me "You think I'm fat!" I said that we do need to control your weight so that you can be fit and healthy. I do want her to grow up with good self esteem and body confidence, but at the same time, she does need to loose weight and get fitter.
I'd be really grateful for any advice on this. Thanks.
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chuffinalong · 03/01/2016 09:59
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