My OH and I are in the most awkward of situations.
I am due a scheduled C section 3 weeks prior to our best friends wedding. Now, their wedding is no kids and they have made that clear and they are quite the 'anti kids' type. Not a insult it's their day and should be exactly how they want it.
Having said that, I'm not wanting to leave the baby when she will be that 'new' So I've suggested my OH goes whilst I stay at home but he's not sure he wants to 'leave me' with both our kids (new born and toddler) when I will very likely be very tender and saw from recovery plus general new born exhaustion.. in fairness I don't really want to be alone either knowing how bad recovery was first time and unfortunately we can't lean on family as typically both sets of grandparents are on holiday..
Now I don't really know what to do? Wedding isn't close and would realistically require a night in a hotel closer.
I don't want to upset our friends obviously and I completely respect their choice to make their day exactly how they want it..but not sure how to approach the subject and keep the peace..
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Theocdmummy · 10/07/2019 12:03
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