I have yet to discuss this with my DP as he is away working at the moment and not home for a couple of weeks.
Basically DP cousin hates me. He always has. DP cousin also has Aspergers so everyone in the family handles him like a bomb, they are scared to say anything to him which annoys the shit out of me when he is so rude
For months he would constantly post memes on DP Facebook which were aimed at me, DP never took him on and just ignored them because nobody wants to say something to hurt him!! I had a really bad day the other week and saw something he had wrote, so I lost the rag and posted a sarcastic comment back. He then wrote how I am a gold digger (I wish) and a list of vile abuse towards me saying I’m this and that..
I’ve never done anything to this man but because I’m the only person who doesn’t take his shit, he hates me.
I don’t want him at my wedding, he would 100% say something or do something that would ruin the day and also my family and friends have all seen the stuff he writes about me and they don’t like him so there would be a lot of awkwardness.
Also, if I don’t want DP cousin to be at the wedding I will have discuss it with the cousins mum and dad, even though he is an adult they basically still wipe his a**e for him.
I just don’t know how to start this conversation with DP, or his cousins parents. I will look like a bridezilla but I don’t really care at this point
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Annie3907 · 03/11/2018 13:03
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