Look at rainbow club available at John Lewis. Mine were mid heel with an ankle strap and very comfortable. They can be dyed and I planned to dye them black afterwards but never did so they were quite expensive for one wear.
Oops - posted too soon.I never wear heels but I tried on some for my daughters wedding and they were amazingly comfortable. Didn't buy them in the end as we live somewhere where crocs and flip-flops are pretty much standard footwear, but they are very lovely and I still wish I had bought them just to look at and stroke occasionally
Someone I know wore trainers, like converse type. To be honest I thought she was smart, you usually can't see the shoes anyway, especially with her dress. Why be uncomfortable? I'm following her on that one if I get married.
I wore some lovely ones from John Lewis rainbow club. Wide fit, soft and a tiny heel. I got them about half a size too big and filled them with a gel insole and extra squishy heel support. (Ps if you're a size 9 I'm selling them!)
Irregular choice for me too, I've got quite a collection dating back about a decade. I've bought a new pair, but will be switching on the evening for a pair of flashy light up trainers (also IC) haha.
