I've changed my name as I'm not sure if my cousin is on Mumsnet.
so my cousin announced her wedding date, I am really excited for the big day.
so I make cakes, and if I do say so damn good ones, my cousin asked me if I would make her cake, I agreed she told me what she wanted, 4 tiers (3 sponge 3 flavours) and a layer of fruit. adorned with sugar lace gold leaf and handmade roses. her reference points where amazing, she asked how much it would be, I added it all up down to every morsel of ingredient and every support dowel need.
I also did some research for her into what this cake would cost at other bakers (not to undercut them she has no idea the work and hours that does into these pieces) and quotes ranged from £700 to a whopping £1000 which I already knew would be the case but I wanted her to see, I gave her my price, I thought a fair £250 as that is what it was going to cost me in ingredients and necessary items. that price did not include any payment for the 20+ hours of work no profit nothing to cover my overheads. nothing exactly cost price,(i even gave her my spreadsheets) she asked if I could get it down slightly so I did, change suppliers went from the brand ingredients to supermarket own brand, from free-range and organic to regular and I got it down to 190, (i also showed her how much I would charge someone else (750) and the quotes from the other people)
she claimed it was still to much,
am I being unreasonable in thinking she is being ungrateful, she claims to appreciate the work I put in, I dont feel she does, for years she has had cakes for family (her future husband's side- not ours) gatherings for next to nothing.
I can't help but feel offended and annoyed, to be honest. she and her husband have good well paid jobs and she has been saving for years for this wedding to have an incredibly glamorous day and I also know she budgeted 600 for a cake she told me this a year ago, I told her that was a good amount she could get a nice cake for that, but told her to speak to me closer to the time to see what I can do for her. for as always cost price.
She has now asked if she buys them ready made in a supermarket would I decorate them, I told her I will recalculate the costs and get back to her.
Now I get some people may think I should do this for nothing as her gift, I've already bought her gift from her gift list, if I hadn't I wouldn't be spending 190-200 on her gift anyway, I'm actually in two minds to just decline the work but I feel that is just being spiteful and petty, and I am just thinking this way because I am a bit Miffed.
your thoughts please..thanks in advance
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NOTtheCHEAPcakeLADY · 28/08/2018 08:11
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