I'm planning our wedding by myself as DP works super long hours and would really appreciate some advice on a few details. I have never been a 'wedding person' so I don't know what I'm doing! Am excited about our day am not really into all the bridezilla things and traditions - DP is the same.
Context - We are having a winter wedding in the evening - marriage, followed by cocktail hour, 3 course meal and dancing. Black tie dress code, but without many formal wedding elements such as walking down aisle, cake, first dance etc.
Questions (as I literally have no clue):
Are buttonholes appropriate (or necessary) for black tie / evening?
As DP and I are walking down aisle together shall I just forgo the bridal bouquet?
In fact do we need flowers at all given the venue will be decorated with Christmas stuff, log fires, garlands on the staircases etc?
Any clever ideas for how we segue from the sit down meal in one room to the dancing in another (we are not having cake or first dance etc).
Finally, does one have any music playing during the marriage itself, e.g. whilst gusts are sitting waiting? is an iPod playlist a but naff / cheesy at this point? (as we are already spending money on band for later).
Thanks so much!!
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London137 · 18/03/2018 16:03
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