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Would my dress look better without straps? Pic attached

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Tobleronemonster · 12/03/2018 12:25

Hello!

So this is my second dress Blush Bought my first, fell in love with it, but then tried it on again and... nah, not so much. I think I just got carried away with the whole dress shopping experience Grin Anyway, that dress has since been returned, so was quickly back to square one.

This is my new dress and I love it (have tried it on twice and still love it Wink ) but I'm now wondering if it would be more flattering without the straps. I do like the detail, but am thinking it might be a bit much??..

Also, do you think it needs taking in more at the waist, to give me more shape? I was told it could be, but would still like to breathe.....if possible!

Thanks

Would my dress look better without straps? Pic attached
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tortelliniforever · 12/03/2018 12:28

Noo! The straps are what makes it special imo. It's a lovely dress. As for the waist, it's hard to tell from the photo. If it's loose take it in but comfort is important too and it looks fine.

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retirednow · 12/03/2018 12:29

It's lovely as it is, I like the straps. It can be more comfortable to wear a bra with straps. Are you wearing a veil.

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Greenteandchives · 12/03/2018 12:31

The straps are lovely. I don’t think the dress would look right without them. Strapless is less fashionable now I think.

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numptynuts · 12/03/2018 12:32

Definitely with straps. It's lovely.

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OutyMcOutface · 12/03/2018 12:33

The cups sit a bit awkwardly which makes the straps look weird.

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Poppins2016 · 12/03/2018 12:33

Definitely keep the straps, the dress would be completely different (and not for the better, in my opinion!) if you remove them.

Beautiful dress!

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IAmALionTamer · 12/03/2018 12:34

I think the straps are part of what makes this dress so lovely. My vote is that they stay.
You look beautiful by the way Flowers

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sashh · 12/03/2018 12:34

It's lovely. It's nice to see straps. You don't want to look like every other bride getting married this year.

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Tobleronemonster · 12/03/2018 12:35

I think I'm wearing a veil, yes.

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Stormwhale · 12/03/2018 12:35

Definitely keep the straps. I think it needs an inch off the hips.

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halfwitpicker · 12/03/2018 12:36

Keep the straps.

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HappyGirl86 · 12/03/2018 12:39

The straps are lovely and make the shape of the dress

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Tobleronemonster · 12/03/2018 12:40

Ah, so all team strap so far then.

Outy, they do look a bit strange, don't they. I've been assured my boobs won't look bumpy on the day Grin It's not been properly fitted to my body yet.

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glsgow107 · 12/03/2018 13:46

Definitely straps! They're so classy!

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Tobleronemonster · 12/03/2018 13:47

Oh and thanks for all your comments!

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Mumathon · 12/03/2018 14:29

Another vote for keep the straps!

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calzone · 12/03/2018 14:30

Definitely keep the straps.

It’s lovely.

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Twodogsandahooch · 12/03/2018 14:32

Keep the straps

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Guiltypleasures001 · 12/03/2018 15:00

Team strap here too looks lovely Thanks

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FrolickingForklift · 12/03/2018 15:04

Leave the straps :) it's an absolutely beautiful dress

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GinIsIn · 12/03/2018 15:09

Definitely straps! It’s just the cups not fitting you properly yet that’s making you wonder

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Tobleronemonster · 12/03/2018 16:29

Yeah, the cups really aren't flattering. The woman in the shop said that it would be sorted, but I couldn't understand how, as it felt like one of those t shirt bras that you've had too long and they go all out of shape.

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retirednow · 12/03/2018 18:00

Can you go back for a proper fitting wearing a bra similar to the one you'd wear on the day, or the actual one, they will just take in a few nips and tucks on the bodice.

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Lifeaback · 12/03/2018 18:03

Definitely keep the straps! They're gorgeous, plus so many weddings Ive been to recently the bride has worn a strapless dress so it's nice to see something a bit different. I'm sure once it's been fitted the cups will look perfect

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HelenaJustina · 12/03/2018 18:07

Also Team Straps, gorgeous dress. Also think it needs to be taken in a tad more, but please make sure you can breathe, bend, dance etc!

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