Hello brides to be. I'm really hoping for an opinion from the other side of the fence... (We married last year)
Anyway, we have a wedding invitation from DHs best friend from school, who he doesn't really see anymore but, he came to our wedding and it's a nice sentiment.
However. There's a few things bugging me.
- Children definitely not welcome
- It's a Wednesday
- It's about 3 hours away
I understand it's your day, but is it ok to be so unaware of your guests needs that they can't see just how difficult this makes attending? We need to take off two days holiday to attend, (they are teachers and it's half term) we need to find baby sitters for two whole days (we've never left our baby overnight before, so I also have that anxiety) if we decide to just do one day, we will have 6 hours driving which is a bit excessive.
Am I over reacting or are they being a bit unreasonable. I understand it's their day and they can do what they want, but the same thread, are they completely unaware that people have children and we cant just leave them in a play pen at home because they're getting married!