Please help me figure out how to deal with this situation...
My MoH offered to plan my hen party for me. This seemed lovely and very sweet of her at the time. I stipulated that I was looking for a certain part of the country and the emphasis on relaxing and pampered.
A few weeks later she said where I wanted was too expensive and not enough to do because people would certainly want to go off and do things... so she changed the location.
Now she wants me to make an fb group and add all of the people I want to invite then vacate the group so they can thrash out budgets and stuff
I said I don’t want a surprise. She insists. I said we have to discuss it first before putting it to my friends and family and a surprise is not what I want. She says I need to trust her.
How do I make her see that she is not doing this for the right reasons if she doesn’t respect my wishes? I don’t want to get in an argument but it seems to be happening anyway!
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NoSurprisesPlease · 23/12/2017 13:28
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