So I'm getting married in 2018 I'm struggling big time tbh my mum isn't being very helpful and my mother in law is being so nice and helping me make some decisions which indeed I'm terrible at but every bit of input is very much needed! So the dress is love to wear is white which I knew can be a touchy subject I have a 6 year old little girl who is my world and I wouldn't change her for the world! But my mum along with being very unsupportive is being quite horrible I've tried to involve her in helping me make decisions about the colours and so on but she just shrugs it off as if she's not bothered she has only asked me not to wear white I did say to her that that would be my decision to make but now any wedding talk falls on death ears when I ask her things she just says I don't know...my mum has a lot of health issues one of which is agoraphobia (she doesn't go out) which makes it twice as hard because she said she doesn't know if she will even come to the wedding...it's totally breaking my heart I have no idea what to do I'm I being selfish wanting to wear a white dress it's my first wedding I've never been married nor do I want to again but just because I had a child out of wedlock shouldn't mean I can't wear the colour I want? I'm so confused any advice is truly welcomed xx
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KateInKorea ·
11/11/2016 23:04
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