Hi, I'm looking for advice on how to have a fab small wedding.
Myself and my partner are hoping to get married next summer, we have started looking at venues but we're not really getting anywhere. The main issue we are facing is that it will most likely be a relatively small wedding, in the region of 40, maybe 50 guests, maybe even less depending on who says yes to the invites!
We also don't have a lot of money, £5000 would be the absolute max but we would rather closer to £3000.
We don't particularly want a traditional sit down meal but obviously want to treat our guests really well. I was thinking of having a hot buffet type thing, but having everything on the guests tables for them to eat as they wish rather than having to get up and down, but I'm not sure how this would actually work.
I'm just so worried it's going to be a bit flat, I know that some guests would most likely leave early and I want people to enjoy themselves and have a dance etc.
I'm also worried that people will judge the fact it is relatively small, myself and my partner don't have massive extended families, and prefer to have a few close friends rather than big groups.
It doesn't help that I've just come back from an amazing, large family wedding. I enjoyed every minute but I can't help but feel my own wedding will fail in comparison!
So basically, we are totally open to something a bit different, but would still like music (ideally live) and dancing, we want it to still look like a wedding.
So has anyone got any advice on how to have a small wedding but still make it fun and worth while for guests (some live in different countries so I want it to be worth their trouble!)
We are in the north west, specifically Liverpool, if that helps.
Thanks in advance!
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UpAllNightToGetLoki · 15/08/2016 12:20
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