Please help. How do I make my Chief Bridesmaid and life long friend feel ok with the fact that I picked my wedding dress without her present?
It wasn't intentional, she lives a long way away so I was attempting to narrow down the choices and range of places she would have to visit with me when she arrived.
Then I put 'my' dress on, it fitted perfectly. I knew before I looked in the mirror. . . thought about it long and hard over lunch (the shop agreed to hold) and in the end I 'had' to go back for it. They couldn't guarantee being able to order it is as it wasn't new stock. The only ones available to order were in such teeny sizes they would never have gone near me.
One very difficult phone-call later and it is clear that the process of being there when I was choosing was of great importance. She was aware that I was going shopping to narrow it down to ease our time together so that wasn't a surprise.
What can I do? Not a lot is the answer I have come to, but hoping the wise people of Mumsnet can help me out!
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ThinkyPantsWorryWort · 08/02/2014 15:32
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