We're in a big muddle over weaning and don't really know how to get out of it! We EBF'd (with an occassional bottle of formula as I couldn't express) for 5.5 months. always intended to BLW at 6 months - ended up starting a little early as DS was showing signs of wanting it. The experience was not the fun nice one I was expecting. HAted him biting off huge pieces of food and gagging on them, spent all the time convinced he was about to choke. At the same time the pressure to give lots of food (from mum, friends etc) was mounting, and DS sleep was getting worse and worse. So I cracked and agreed to give lumpy purees. He's now being spoon fed commercial food 3 times a day, which has happened quickly. He's a bit constipated, it has made no difference to sleep, and I am so guilty that I might be hurting him, and that I'm undoing all the good work of struggling to breast feed for so long.
am I damaging him? where should I go next - back to BLW and deal with my fears, or stick with lumpy second stage type foods?
I know I'm completely overreacting, and that this shouldn't be such a big deal but for some reason it really is making me very anxious and upset. I just want to be confident I'm doing best by him
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confused, feeling guilty, need some support - bit long sorry
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eggybrokenoff · 05/08/2009 08:18
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