My lb has now turned 1 and I only breastfeed him at night to get him to sleep and then unfortunately every time he wakes... I feed him to sleep on our bed and then transfer him to his cot but he normally wakes after an hour and we repeat (He's teething but miraculously he slept 4 hrs in his cot in one stretch last night for the first time for months). Once I'm in bed he comes to join me when he wakes and if I feel energised I keep putting him back in his cot but he wakes easily after midnight so often he stays in bed with me. I know... it's a really bad habit when I ideally want him to sleep in his cot.
We're in a small 1 bedroom flat and my partner has been on an air mattress in the lounge for months now, he is not sleeping well and I'd like him back in the bedroom. We cant all three share the bed as just not enough space to do it safely. Anyway I really want my boy to be able to fall asleep on his own and my thought is to start giving him a bottle tomorrow night and then put him in his cot and stay with him until he falls asleep. I have put it off for a long time because I fear that he is going to be extremely cross with me but I have made my mind up. I need to do this! But what do I do when he wakes in the night??? I would usually just offer boob as that way we'd both get some sleep but I can't keep doing that. My lb is using me as his dummy so a lot of it is just for comfort, he has never accepted a dummy and we've tried loads of different brands.
Has anyone done this? Any tips? It has to be me doing it as my partner is not available to do it. Tia x
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Find weaning advice from other Mumsnetters on our Weaning forum. Use our child development calendar for more information.
Weaning
Please help me stop feeding my 1 year old son to sleep
15 replies
Sakura03 · 21/11/2018 16:33
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.