I've been scouring the internet for some words of encouragement, but I can't quite find the right ones so I thought I'd post.
I want to stop breastfeeding. I have a 6 month old. I can only feed on one side because there is damage to my right breast.
I've been trying to stop since 4 months, that was always my goal. She won't take a bottle, I've tried every single type. She won't use a sippy cup. The closest we can get is a doidy cup, but still then it's very hard work and I can't get her to take more than a few sips.
I was supposed to be going on a hen weekend when she's 8 months. I really really wanted to go. I'm going back to work the week after so I will have to stop feeding in the day at least. But I want to stop completely.
She just cries and cries until I put her on the breast. Nothing works, pumping, warming it up, giving her baby juice or water... I even mixed it with strawberry yoghurt to make a smoothie. I let other people feed her, I leave the house, I've just done everything and now I'm absolutely desperate.
I was so looking forward to this break away, it meant everything to me, and I can't go and I'm totally crushed. I resent the baby and my husband because he can just come and go as he pleases and it's so unfair. I hate myself for breastfeeding to begin with because now I'm trapped.
I have this friend that's breastfed for 2 years and she doesn't work and everyone keeps saying she has the same problems as me... I'm panicking that I will be feeding for another 18 months just like her and I won't have any choice in the matter.
I'm not sure my mental health would survive that, I'm having counselling for PND and he says stopping feeding is huge for me and I need to prioritise it. I am! And there's zero progress. What am I going to do?
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Baby won't stop breastfeeding and I'm really upset
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mrshobbit1009 · 09/01/2016 09:26
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