Hi, hoping that someone out there can offer some advice!
Background:
My DD is 28 weeks. She is breastfed with a bottle at bedtime and dream feed at 10.30pm (DH). She started out on the 0.9th centile and has increased to the 50th centile over 6 months so I'm not worried about her weight.
We started weaning properly a couple of weeks ago and we're finding that this is causing more hunger and night wake ups. She has never slept through, we've always had a 2-3am and then 5am wake up (and I've always breastfed her then) but I was hoping the night wakings were nearing the end..
So, she has always been a snacker and up until 4 months ish, she breastfed 2 hourly in the day. She has never taken more than 130mls from a bottle, and we have tried everything, different a bottles/teats/milk temps etc
So:
7-7.30am wake up and breastfed
8-8.30am porridge with puréed fruit, sometimes yoghurt afterwards
9.30am nap 1.5-2hours
11.30am breastfeed
12noon lunch - fish/veg and yogurt
1.30-2pm sometimes small breastfeed pre nap 2 hours
4pm -breastfeed
5pm dinner - rice cake, spread cheese, yoghurt with fruit is example
6.30pm bedtime routine and bottle (used to take 120-130ml now 60ml)
She would then be dreamfed at 10.30 and breastfeeding at 2ish and 5ish
But now:
Wakes at 9-9.30pm - hungry, breastfed
11.30-12 midnight - hungry
3ish and 5ish -hungry
I'm pretty sure the extra wakenings are hunger, she is actually good at sleeping and knows when she should be asleep, I dont need to faff with rocking and going in repeatedly, she will just roll onto side and go to sleep once fed.
I don't understand why this is happening, am I doing something wrong?
Current theories:
- dinner is too late in day and she not hungry for bed time bottle which has a knock on to the night
- growth spurt - need to suck it up
-isn't a bottle fan - suck
-waking is thirst - should offer water (? Load of rubbish, advice offered by well meaning colleague)
-need to feed more food as hungry to stock up for the night (but I think I feed til satiety)
I've tried water with meals but she isn't keen.
Please offer advice or reassurance that this, too, will pass!!
Thanks