I need to put some context to this before I begin. We have recently relocated to Australia - on 15th of September to be exact! And are living with my husbands family until we get ourselves on our feet. We are living with
His mum
His dad
Sister 1
Sister 2
Sister 3
Younger Brother
We are all in one bedroom so its cramped. It's been 7/8 weeks now and finally we are looking at moving into our own house in a week or two. The problem we are having is... His family keep telling our son off! He is 3 years old, and we also have a 1 year old daughter.
He is 3 years old so he's a mini teenager - anyone with a threenager will know my
Pain lol but seriously they are telling him off all the time. At first it wasn't too bad as they let me discipline him if I needed to but now I feel like he can't breath without being told off. Even my husbands brother had a go at him the other day and he never says anything as he has a speech impediment. An example would be that he was touching the house phone - so one of my husbands sisters will say "don't touch that you don't know who you'll phone", and I say "please don't touch that honey it needs to stay there" and then my husbands brother says "it's not a toy!". Yesterday I heard one of my sons aunties saying "don't punch me or I'll punch you"- my son has stated play fighting sometimes his aunties and cousins will do it as a play thing and other times they say no - how is my son supposed to know if he's coming or going?! I'm at my wits end. She should not be threatening a small child. Tomorrow I'm going to keep a diary of every time someone other than me tells my son off. I feel now they're just picking on him, I feel sick. Any ideas if I'm being unreasonable? Why are they telling him off so much?! On top of this his behaviour is getting worse. And I think it's because of the negative atmosphere here. One of his aunties winds him up so much, I mean so much I want to punch her in the face!! I can't wait to get out of here. AIBU?
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Family keep telling my child off! AIBU!?!
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WS12 · 08/11/2016 11:43
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