Hello everybody this is my first post on here and I am hoping for a little bit of advice my partner has recently broken up with me and I am absolutely devastated she is now being very difficult about her pregnancy telling me I am no longer invited to any scans the babies birth or have any rights to any decisions regarding babies names welfare or anything I pretty much feel like I am just a walking cheque-book to her now she is not even three months pregnant and has already requested me to pay £50 each week from week 12 I have no problem with regards to paying for my child despite being told I will not be involved in anything apart from visits at her flat I just want to know what advice you people may have for me regarding the financial aspects for my baby like I say I am more than happy to pay for it but am I better just putting money in her bank each week and letting her do what she needs to do or am I best paying for certain things and keeping receipts I am only a taxi driver therefore I am self-employed and do you not have the best finances in the world but I will do whatever it takes for my baby to have what ever it needs I just don't want her to take advantage of me and I feel like she is already starting by throwing constant obstacles in my way I am absolutely devastated with the break up please offer me any advice from a broken hearted father to be
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