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My dads sitting outside my house.

(9 Posts)
Caulk Wed 29-Nov-17 22:27:08

Backstory: 2x5 years in prison for abuse, NC for 3 years. Recently told me he’s suicidal and my mum is going to dignitas. I spoke to social care who say he’s lying.

I’ve just seen that he’s parked outside my house, just sitting in the car. I got in about an hour ago and he wasn’t there there. I didn’t know he knew this address. I’ve called 101 but they can’t do anything unless. I’ve called a friend who is on her way over.

I don’t know why he’s there. He isn’t dangerous but I’m scared of him.

TammySwansonTwo Wed 29-Nov-17 22:39:21

Bless you. I live in fear of my father turning up one day. Glad you have a friend coming over - in the meantime, try to distract yourself with something, make sure all your doors and windows are locked. Hang in there x

picklemepopcorn Wed 29-Nov-17 23:13:31

How horrid for you. I hope your friend arrives soon. Can you go away for a few days, in the hope he gets bored and goes away?

TheMaddHugger Thu 30-Nov-17 00:01:32

I wouldn't normally advise this but arm yourself with a can of hairspray. Go for the eyes.
Only if in mortal danger.
I feel for you. Hope your friend gets there soon.
Ps, take a few pics of him outside your home. you will need this if going for a protection order later.
Do you rent ? Can you move ?

Caulk Thu 30-Nov-17 07:45:36

He lives 400 miles away, I never expected this would happen because of the distance and because it feels out of character for him.

I move house tomorrow so at least he won’t know where I’m going. He’s not there now but I’m frightened knowing that he is around somewhere, possibly nearby

picklemepopcorn Thu 30-Nov-17 08:13:15

That's fortunate! Good luck with the move.

HellsBellsnBucketsofBlood Thu 30-Nov-17 08:32:21

Make sure the movers know not to let anyone know where they are headed.

overnightangel Thu 30-Nov-17 08:34:00

Hi @caulk hope you’re ok, is he still there?

Caulk Thu 30-Nov-17 09:17:58

He isn’t there. I’ve gone to work, which is nearby. I knew he knew my work address but didn’t think he knew my house so he could turn up here.

It’s horrifically shit.

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