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I'm just utterly defeated and don't know what to do anymore

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Shannith Sat 13-May-17 18:51:59

Just this. Oh I'm just done. I used to be the most tough person you ever meet. Now I'm a shell of the person I used to be.

The final straw was being told I was vile this morning because I have a tiny scab on my head. I mean who says that to anyone, particularly someone that has had multiple biopsies in the last two years.

He has been with me to enough cancer appointments with consultants to know I am not making this up. Done. Just need to know how you get the balls to do this.

We have a 5 Y0 DD I'm just so defeated. I have had enough.

I don't know what to do next.

QuiteLikely5 Sat 13-May-17 18:54:54

Parhaps this was the final straw for you.

Do you own together or rent?

Who's name is on the deeds/tenancy?

You can apply for benefits and also child maintenance

Shannith Sat 13-May-17 19:09:42

Own. I'm the main bread winner at the moment. He is independently wealthy so has a cushion I don't have. Such horrible decisions to make. Do i let my daughter grow up in an environment where she has everything she could ever want but her parents don't like each other.

I know the answer. I would say LTB. It's unfortunately more complicated than that

It's such a mess. I wish I knew the answer.

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