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Please could someone do a reading for me

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Therewere5inthebed Thu 19-Sep-19 18:44:50

I’m at a few crossroads at the moment and could really do with some guidance.

mineralmist Sun 22-Sep-19 06:55:32

Your finances (or certain practical, material conditions) are out of balance, possibly due to not controlling your spending in the past, or bieng in the grip of an unhealthy behaviour pattern. I get the feeling you made an effort for a while to keep things flowing better, but you've fallen back into unhelpful habits and need to cut your losses. Which you can do if you put your mind to it, you've managed it before, although it seems like you're looking for a longer-term, more foolproof way of managing. Make some small changes and you'll feel better about things almost immediately, then you can build on those changes over time to create more stability. You're disappointed in yourself, you thought you had it all under control and then took your eye off the ball, but it happens and you can start to climb back out of it by using your resources, skills and experience to keep those balls in the air until things improve. And then, once things are more level, remember to do what you know works to keep them that way. But I think you've been tested recently and it has been a hard one, you lost yourself and your best intentions went out the window. Getting back to something more manageable and sustainable just means doing some 'creative accounting' for a while, changing what you can rather than feeling overwhelmed by what you can't change at present. Something - or someone - has to give.

Therewere5inthebed Mon 23-Sep-19 14:32:09

@mineralmist, Thank you!
Any idea regarding relationships?

mineralmist Mon 23-Sep-19 20:20:26

The theme of completion of a significant life experience is at work in your life, and perhaps this means the reaching of a goal or final outcome to a long stage of your path through life. Achievement isn't necessarily limited to external measurements of 'success' but can be a much more personal value. Here it might be that you've done all you can, it's time to move on and there's no judgment attached to that decision. This appears to be the outcome of an intense emotional energy which may have fizzled out - run its course - and so you can no longer direct your life according to how you once felt. You've changed, and it's likely that facing that honestly is somewhat anxiety-provoking because it brings you face to face with the world 'out there' and all the uncertainty that that can provoke in us when big change is needed. And yet you probably know that's the answer to how you're feeling. At the end of the first reading I offered you: "Something - or someone- has to give." If they haven't or won't, it comes down to you to make the decision, which could well be a change in home or location that is linked to living arrangements you have with someone else.

Please take this reading in the spirit of suggestion rather than as an irrefutable "message from spirit" or whatever. I believe in the power of the unconscious to hint at solutions, but this isn't prescriptive advice. If it resonates with you that's interesting, given we have had no face to face contact or dialogue, but before making life-changing decisions I recommend you consult those close to you whom you trust to have your best interests at heart, if at all possible. I wish you well star

Therewere5inthebed Mon 23-Sep-19 22:17:11

@mineralmist
There is a great deal that rings true in both readings, my current home is at the crux of both financial and emotional turbulence.

Thank you so much for your insight and time.

Inappropriatefemale Sun 29-Sep-19 11:00:39

@MineralMist may I please have a reading too? It’s just I seen this reading you had given the other woman so thought I’d jump on the bandwagon too!

Mojitomogul Tue 01-Oct-19 10:02:42

@mineralmist If you have time could I please have a reading? The last year has been extremely emotional and turbulent and I would love some guidance. Thank you.

GoFiguire Tue 01-Oct-19 10:05:55

You must all LTB, cancel the cheque and give me your bank details and PIN numbers.

kitchensinkdrama19 Tue 01-Oct-19 16:59:26

And me please!

Inappropriatefemale Wed 02-Oct-19 16:57:45

We have a cynic in our mists GoFiguire! Why bother even coming to these threads?!grin

Inappropriatefemale Wed 02-Oct-19 16:58:05

Midsts even!!

weebarra Wed 02-Oct-19 16:59:05

@mineralmist , may I have one too? I was about to post on the previous thread but was too late.

GoFiguire Wed 02-Oct-19 20:43:41

I’m not a cynic. I am a Nigerian prince with £20million to transfer into the U.K.

Inappropriatefemale Wed 02-Oct-19 20:45:27

Aw yeah GoFiguire and I’m a vulnerable widow with millions to spare gringrin

beatriceprior Wed 02-Oct-19 21:00:21

May I have a reading too please xx

GoFiguire Thu 03-Oct-19 06:53:02

Well then,it is fate that has brought us together.. I predict a meeting in the Luton Aldi car park where we escape this hum drum life on the bandwagon of luurve .

Phimma Thu 03-Oct-19 07:13:17

Yes please, with so much drama in my life I so Need a reading.

Inappropriatefemale Fri 04-Oct-19 13:47:55

GoFiguire yes it’s obviously fate although I would’ve thought that Tesco’s carpark was more fitting?grin

GoFiguire Fri 04-Oct-19 14:04:17

What the hell, let’s throw caution to the wind and ,as you’re paying, let’s meet at Waitrose and I’ll have a latte and one of those custard Danish pastry things. I’ll pay you back when my rich uncle dies wink

Inappropriatefemale Sun 06-Oct-19 00:09:54

GoFiguire the nearest Waitrose to me is quite far away, should I travel there? I should go really far far for love shouldn’t I? Maybe we should ‘get another thread’ (it’s like getting a room!)

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