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I can't see myself living into old age

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Bunnybutton Sun 20-May-18 23:12:06

I'm in my late 20's now and Ever since I was in my teens I always had the feeling I'm not going to live to be an old women , I would like to reach old age and see my children grow up and be happy .

Anyone else ?

lucy2204 Sun 20-May-18 23:33:33

I have this! sad it actually makes me feel emotional :/ everyone thinks im crazy when i say it to them :| xx

ImTakingTheEssence Wed 23-May-18 18:51:54

Yes i feel i may die in a car crash always have this feeling when im in the car.

ImAGoofyGoober Wed 23-May-18 18:52:39

Me too. Maternal grandmother and mother died around 60, I have a feeling I will do the same.

GlassSuppers Wed 23-May-18 18:54:12

Yep. I've always thought I'll die in my 30s from a heart attack.
No idea why!

Racecardriver Wed 23-May-18 18:55:32

Maybe it is just difficult to imagine. I can see myself in my sixties but find it hard to imagine myself as a 90 year old. The is a part of me that just doesn't want to think about it.

WhatsGoingOnEh Sun 27-May-18 13:15:47

I always thought I'd die at 33. I just knew it.

Today? I'm nearly 50.

Missingthesea Sun 27-May-18 22:29:01

Two months after my 35th birthday I suddenly had the oddest feeling that I was exactly halfway through my life. I'll have to wait and see! I just hope neither of the DGC are doing important exams whenever the time comes.

MMcanny Sun 27-May-18 22:37:01

Strangely I have the opposite. I’m pretty sure i’ll Reach at least 100! I’m careful to pay up my pension and take care of my physical health because although I have no desire to give up work or retire before I lose my health, I think even if I work to 70 i’ll Still have at least 30 years left! My paternal grandmother lived to 99. I may be completely wrong of course but think I may as well plan for the best and if I go sooner at least i’ll Be a lovely fit-looking corpse! Lol.

Whisky2014 Sun 27-May-18 22:39:45

I also have a feeling ill die younger than 60. But i hate the thought of dying and leaving everyone around me and not being part of the world anymore. And then I think if my partner was to die first id hate that too because I'd miss him so much. Urgh getting old is not fun.

LighthouseSouth Sun 27-May-18 22:43:03

I have this but I dont mind it

It's not so much a spooky thing as just something I've always thought but I've had poor health since I was kid so there must be a psych link

elephantoverthehill Sun 27-May-18 22:44:49

I'm 53. I used to smoke and was told I would die in my 40s. I am just now taking my pension a bit seriously.

LighthouseSouth Sun 27-May-18 23:06:16

PS I mean a psychological,link not psychic link grin

BlackAmericanoNoSugar Sun 27-May-18 23:11:05

My DH always had a strong feeling that he wouldn't live past his twenties, he's nearly 60 now which shows that pessimism isn't always correct.

Missingthesea Sun 27-May-18 23:31:34

Thank you BlackAmericanoNoSugar that's very cheering grin

Bunnybutton Mon 28-May-18 22:40:33

Wow , guess I'm not alone . Very interesting to read your thoughts . Let's hope the world is a nicer place to be in 40 years

Earthmover Wed 28-Nov-18 04:48:54

I'm so sure I won't reach retirement age that Ive just spent the past four and a half years on a career break and living off savings(original plan was 12 months)
Did 20 odd years. Got another twenty odd to go. Was a nice little half time break but work beckons in the new year.
The fact my mother and quite a few aunts got dementia in their late sixties played on my mind and I was determined not to be cheated out of the workfree sensation.
I can die (early) happy now.

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