dd1 is 14 and incredibly bossy and protective of her pony to the point where I can no longer help her do anything as I am invariably doing it completely wrong. Its turning pony ownership into a bit of a nightmare. This morning she went mad at me because I had mixed his feed and I may not have done it how she would do it. She has become more competitive and is doing very well on him but doesn't like me to come and watch anymore and will only go with my dh. Its making me feel a bit bullied and sad which I am aware sounds utterly pathetic. I don't suppose anyone knows where I am coming from? I have two other dcs who ride and they are young enough and easy enough to actively enjoy me being involved and helping them so its not all doom and gloom.
I have tried just letting her get on with it which works to a point until she forgets something when she will absoultey lose it at me as I 'am not helping her'.
Is this just teenagers :-(
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sadsometimes · 28/10/2013 11:36
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