I recently posted on here about some issues I was having with a potential horse share.
To cut a long story short, I was looking for a safe and sensible horse suitable for a novice and I thought I had found just that but it turned out the horse was not really what I was looking for, so I told the owner thanks but no thanks. The owner was actually really keen for me to continue and give the share a trial period but it just really wasn't right for me and I knew that deep down so decided to cut my losses and walk away.
A lot of people on here who responded to my post were very quick to say I didn't have the experience, sounded too novice, etc and I respect those views - at the end of the day the reason I came on this discussion forum is to get a range of opinions. But now I would like to ask the question how much experience do I need to consider a share?
The reason I ask is that I have been offered another share, on the following terms:
-the horse is bombproof, suitable for novice, has taught a lot of nervous people to ride.
- It is kept at a large yard where there is always someone around to ask and a knowledgable yard owner on site.
- To start with I would only have the horse on 'share' one day per week and I would have a lesson with the on site instructor, so I would not be riding on my own until I felt 100% confident with the horse. If I wanted to I would have the option of having more 'share' days in the future.
- the owner has another horse herself so if I wanted to hack out she would accompany me.
-the yard do BHS horse owners qualifications so I could do those if I wanted to.
On this basis, do you think I should consider this share? In terms of experience I used to ride as a teenager between the ages of 12 and 18 and I also used to help out at a livery yard at weekends. I am now in my 30s and I had several years out of the saddle, although I have just had a few lessons this year to get back into the swing of things.
Yes I am no expert but I know the basics and everyone has to start somewhere........how experienced do I need to be to consider the share I have described above?
The reason I would like a share as opposed to just going to a riding school is that I have struggled to find a genuinely good riding school and also I like the idea of building up a relationship with a horse rather than just chopping and changing horses at the riding school. I also like spending time around horses rather than just turning up, riding then going home.