New child joined at Christmas. I've been teaching for a while and hand on heart, he's the only child I've ever actively disliked.
Playground behaviour is appalling and very carefully targeted at the children who have a disability, children who have something he can laugh at, or children who going through a hard patch at home. However, he never targets the children liable to hit him back.
He has been intensively tutored since Reception and will put his hand up and proclaim that he 'has done this already'. It is true that my class are slightly behind, however I've put a lot of work into their mental arithmetic and grammar. He is very good at rote learning but has no application (e.g. I was using a bit of word problem in multiplication, he didn't know where to begin). He produced one sentence in writing this week. His handwriting and presentation is generally appalling.
I made an appointment with Mum who said, 'yes, I've had to increase his tutor sessions since he moved to this school'
He cannot abide anyone else getting what he perceives to be 'special treatment'. One of my children with autism prefers a certain brand of whiteboard pen so has his own. This child took them out of his tray. There are so many little incidents like that. He is always determined to be the first or the top.
I know that this child is obviously unhappy. I know that. But dear me, I dislike him so much :( I feel like I'm in a cycle of negativity with him and I don't know how to get out of it.
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TimeToPutAwayTheWinterCoat · 23/02/2019 11:34
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