Morning everyone,
Hoping some fellow teachers can help me with a dilemma, last year I tutored a student for her GCSE. I have never tutored before in my career as I felt registering was more bother than it was worth but her mum was deputy head in my school and asked me if I could. I felt I should say yes so I began tutoring her and the student was very pleasant to work with.
This year the same girl wanted to continue tuition as she had chosen my subject for A Level and her friend also asked – so I now tutor the two of them. The problem is the original girl studies different unit options of my subject than what I have taught to date. It takes me a long time to prepare for her sessions and her mum always texts for feedback after – basically a lot of time out of the session either preparing or feeding back or marking extra work she has completed (which takes a while as I am unfamiliar). The other girl studies a unit I have taught many times and have abundant resources on so it quite easy to prep for and support. Her parents are happy to have a brief word in front of her at the end of the session to feedback.
After waking up at early this morning and spending 2 hours prepping / finding resources for tomorrow’s session before beginning work for my own classes I have decided enough if enough – the additional stress this is causing me is too much. I already feel exhausted by 11am on Sunday morning and my DD will be arriving back from DPs to a tired mum. However … her mum is quite an unapproachable leader who I don’t quite know how to tell I no longer want to tutor her daughter.
What would be the best approach here? How much notice should I give? I feel guilty letting the girl down but I think it is causing me anxiety. Any advice would be welcome! May be worth adding her mum is currently signed off with a medical problem so not easy to have a word with in work.
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historymystery · 03/02/2019 11:38
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