Hi everyone,
I've posted in the Staffroom before a few months ago about finding my NQT year very very difficult in the school I was in. I found another job in the school where I did my first PGCE placement and started there after Christmas. The problem is, I don't think the problem was the school - I think I'm the issue! WIBU to leave teaching at the end of my NQT?
I find teaching so unbearably hard. Actually standing up in front of thirty-odd teenagers and having to try and get their attention feels like the opposite of 'me'. My self-esteem is crumbling because (even in the 'new' school where I did my placement and where the behaviour management system is more robust) the students are rude and disrespectful, I'm spoken to like dirt even though I challenge it all the time, patiently and calmly. The staff are cliquey, hardly any adults speak to me during the day, and this week we had a whole-staff dressing down from the head because somebody had been looking for a new job without letting her know they were looking. Then there's the observations and targets etc, and we've already had two parents' evenings since Christmas. I think that during my training, I was a bit protected from all of this by my mentor, who's quite formidable, but on my own I can't cope. I don't think I'm cut out for teaching.
My undergraduate degree is in languages and I think I can find other short-term work while I retrain in translation part-time with the Open University. I would stay at my current school until the end of the academic year, so I'm not going to leave them in the lurch, and I'll have completed my NQT so I would have the full qualification if I really needed to go back to teaching.
I feel like I'm letting people down by wanting to leave, but I feel so miserable that last week I was in tears before going in to work and I've been having bad dreams for months. I live with my DP's parents while we save up for a house deposit, so (very very luckily) our rent is minimal and I have the savings to cover the OU degree. I can get freelance work or a lower-stress job after August while I study.
What do you all think about me leaving in these circumstances? Am I being a wet blanket?
If anyone wants to share their views, I'd be really grateful! TIA
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nqtomg · 20/01/2019 16:59
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