Hello,
I am a teacher in secondary and we now have our first trans pupil returning as their new gender after the holidays. He (was she) has been off for nearly a year with severe mental health issues (hospitalised etc) and is now feeling great, apparently better, but is now He. A new name has been chosen (we will call him Mike) and Mike is returning as a boy.
Now, I have done a lot of reading around this, mostly following the many insightful posts on here regarding MTF trans. I am in agreement with a huge number of those on the Feminist boards.
Not sure really what I am asking. I suppose there are a number of issues. Has anyone else dealt with this as a teacher? Mike is also close friends with DD (same school as me). Both are 17.
Bathrooms seem to be decided - immediately male, even though we have urinals and boys might be uncomfortable.
Mike has to be Mike for a year and will then get hormones and surgery. I find this makes me very uncomfortable.
I run a residential school trip - to battlefields - and Mike is going and we have been told he is to be on the boys' floor / bathrooms etc.
I know that Mike was always very masculine in terms of dress anyway so I don't actually see why adults are following this to such a horrible conclusion. But, I am keeping that to myself.
Help!
I have changed loads of details, BTW, to keep me safe and protect Mike. The gender is MTF though, crucially. Thoughts? Experiences?
BTW, Mike is an extremely clever, high achieving pupil but possibly ASD (certainly very socially awkward) which makes me also feel uncomfortable.
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Roseformeplease · 12/04/2017 10:58
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