Hi! Regular poster, NC as this could identify me.
I teach in a primary school but run a small unit for children with specific learning difficulties (severe dyslexia etc) one of the children who has recently been placed with me has been put here because his behaviour is so awful and as a year 6 pupil he's disrupting sats. Fair enough, we've had a modest amount of success with him and he definitely has potential but.....
He is aggressive (with no provocation) to children and staff, he runs away at the drop of a hat, he refuses to cooperate with small insignificant requests eg move to a different table, hand over an object that he shouldn't have, he constantly says horrible things to the other children and today he has randomly attacked a much younger child (our class is year 2-6) kicking, slapping, pulling his hair. We pulled him off fast but he'd still caused a fair bit of damage and the child was extremely upset.
So, the real problem is this... Whenever we have to restrain him for his own or other people's safety, he goes home crying to mum that we're bullying him.
She comes in, screams, threatens us with the police, ofsted and the local authority then marches out with him (will never allow me to speak just screams over the top of me)
By the next day, she will be "calmer"
Meet with the head who says the issue is resolved and he trots back into class with zero consequences.
I am beginning to feel that I, and the rest of the class have become his punch bags but, because we get no support from the head I feel my hands are tied.
If the incident from today (very serious in my opinion) is treated in the same way, has anybody got any suggestions about what I could do? Thanks!
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Feel like a punchbag.... Help? Or just let me moan!
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kicksupastorm · 16/11/2016 17:39
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