Help! Is this normal and can we do anything about it?
2 year old neutered tom cat, we got him at 4 months from rescue centre. Affectionate, friendly, really lovely cat. He came to us in the autumn 2019 and we kept him in until Spring 2020 then he tentatively started exploring our garden then our estate. Made other cat friends. Over winter he stayed in most of the time. Even in this nicer weather he preferred our garden though he visits lots of people on the estate.
We can't get a cat flap but he's always home around 10pm and he had only ever stayed out overnight once or twice, always back at our kitchen door at 6am.
2 months ago I noticed he wasn't eating at much so I suspected he's getting food elsewhere. I know this can be normal.
2 weeks ago he suddenly went missing. I was beside myself. 3 nights! From being super attached to us to 3 nights away! We gave up hope, kids upset. Then someone posted a photo of him on the estate WhatsApp! He didn't seem that excited to see us but was fine once home. Kept him home a few days the he was out as normal, home at night.
Then this weekend the same thing happened! 3 nights away, and we only got him back as he was visiting a cat friend and they kept him in til we arrived. They don't ever keep him overnight.
Is this it now? Is there anything we can do?
We're going away soon and usually bring him. For various reasons we have to make this trip for one week. What if we can't find him before our deadline to leave?! How do people manage this?
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Livingmagicallyagain · 21/06/2021 12:09
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