We got a wee rescue cat 11 days ago.
She is a placid wee thing and seems to be settling in quite well and is gradually leaving the room we set up for her.
The issue is she doesn't seem to really like my 3 year old. She doesn't strike out or hiss at him and it was this temperament we like about her. My 3 year old has been good with her, just wants to go to see her and stroke her. But he is a bit loud (as 3 year old are). I supervise all contact between them and the cat is fine when he is giving her food but then just runs to get away from him. In turn he thinks that is funny and chases her. I let her escape into her own room and my dc can't access her there. I tell him she just wants to have a rest by herself.
In this way though I'm excluding her from socialising with the rest of us. She will come out at night when dc is in bed and has her crazy half hour.
So bottom line any time dc appears she runs away!
Will this get better as he gets older and less loud? I have a romantic notion of them growing up together as the cat is only 18 months.
Any advice??
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Cloverglens · 01/10/2020 14:43
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