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Urgent kitten taming question

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Kittynapper · 24/08/2019 19:32

There's a mother cat with four kittens behind my house. They are all feral. I want to tame the kittens so the can be adopted.

I reckoned the kittens were about 8 weeks old so ok to separate from the mother so I brought three of them in. They nearly took my hands off, vicious little things. When I was catching them I heard the mother cat hiss at me and now I'm worried that they are too young to leave their mum.

Here are some photos. Are they old enough?

Urgent kitten taming question
Urgent kitten taming question
Urgent kitten taming question
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RedCowboyBoots · 24/08/2019 19:35

Put them back! You've no idea how old they are, poor things.

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EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 24/08/2019 19:36

They look bigger than the 6 week old I’m hand rearing

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VivaLeBeaver · 24/08/2019 19:39

They do look about 8 weeks.

I cat trapped a feral kitten years ago in my garden, no sign of mum at all. Kitten was under my hen house by himself for 24 hours and distressed. Gave the kitten to a neighbour along with a dog crate. They kept him in a crate in the living room for weeks so he could get used to them. He was wild as anything. When I let him out the cat trap in my bathroom he literally ran up the wall!

Kitten is now the tamest adult cat ever.

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Dontfuckingsaycheese · 24/08/2019 19:41

Not sure that 'feral' cats can be made into tame friendly house pets. It's not necessarily just nurture but their breeding. More suited to being outside like farm-cats.

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Ilikecurrybest · 24/08/2019 19:42

Well done for trying to help them - I don’t know a lot about such young kittens but Could you contact cats protection? I think they will tehome and take care of vaccinations and neuter too!

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mrscatmad31 · 24/08/2019 19:43

Please contact cats protection, they will help you

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RedCowboyBoots · 24/08/2019 19:44

Apparently, you've left it a tad late

//www.animalalliancenyc.org/wordpress/2013/05/the-best-age-for-taming-feral-kittens/

If you can catch the mum might be worth getting her spayed.

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Lilzpk · 24/08/2019 19:45

Find a tnr rescue to help you trap mum and any remaining kittens she can still nurse them in a cage, get her spayed and put her back, the kittens can be tamed but it will patience and experience

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SaddleGoose · 24/08/2019 19:46

Definitely contact cats protection and they can advise what to do. I'm not surprised their mum hissed though, wouldn't you if your babies were being taken away? And they're not vicious, just petrified! 🙄

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EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 24/08/2019 19:47

I know someone who has tamed feral kittens , she’s never been able to catch Mum but she manages to catch the kittens every year . You probably need to find someone who knows what they are doing

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RedCowboyBoots · 24/08/2019 19:48

You probably need to find someone who knows what they are doing

^ This

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bodgeitandscarper · 24/08/2019 19:48

I wholeheartedly disagree that feral cats can't become domesticated, having tamed six of my own. A rescue I support also has its motto that there is no such thing as a feral cat, only a frightened cat.
With kittens especially it is easier for them to adapt, but they are all terrifyingly fierce in the beginning!
This link might help with some tips:- www.theluckyfew.org/site/feral_cats.html
A crate can prove invaluable in taming kittens too,it's surprising how quickly they can come round.

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Kittynapper · 24/08/2019 19:50

Thanks. I checked online and spoke to a cat rescue volunteer today before I caught them. If they are left outside they'll be hungry and homeless feral cats. I really want to save them from that and tame them if I can. The sooner they're inside the sooner I can start to socialise them.

I couldn't catch the fourth one. I worry that the mother will suffer losing the three of them suddenly if they aren't fully weaned yet. Maybe the remaining kitten nursing will ease the transition?

They ran behind the sofa and have been completely silent since I brought them in Confused

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RedCowboyBoots · 24/08/2019 19:54

I know nothing about taming ferals, but when you bring a cat home they advise you to put them in their own room initially as their territory to lessen the stress by not expecting them to be around you all the time. I wouldn't have thought you should put them in your living room, if that's what you've done. Have you ever had cats?

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Costacoffeeplease · 24/08/2019 19:55

I have tamed lots of feral kittens. I put them in a large cage and start by touching/stroking them with a plastic rod (from a cat fishing rod toy) this gets them used to the feeling of being touched.

I don’t leave food in the cage so that they associate me with food and usually within 2-3 days they’re much calmer and I can gently stroke them.

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HappyHammy · 24/08/2019 19:57

I expect they are frightened and missing their mum. They wont be litter trained or used to catfood. Are you putting food water and shelter out for mum and the remaining kitten. I'd ask if a rescue could take them and trap the others. They will need vaccination and worming and being sexed and spayed.

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Kittynapper · 24/08/2019 20:43

RedCowboyBoots, I've had loads of cats over the years so I have plenty of experience, but not specifically separating kittens from their mother and taming wild cats. The room the kittens are in is a room with an "airlock" - I can close one door behind me before I open then next one so more secure.

SaddleGoose, of course you are right, they're not vicious. I'll treat them well and hope that eventually they'll calm down and trust me. I feel terrible about taking the babies from their mother! That's why I posted here, because although I was following the advice it just felt wrong to take the kittens away. I've been feeding their mum for months so we have a kind of understanding. Now she'll see me as pure evil and I hate the thought of that.

I've been in touch with local call protection previously about the stray cats and again today about these kittens. They were very unhelpful indeed. I think they are overrun with cats, particularly at this time of year, and very short of money. I was told they could give me only 20% off the cost of neutering and that they are very short of TNR traps and I'll be waiting several weeks for one.

I have my own little cat family to care for so all this is on top of that.

bodgeitandscarper That's a really helpful link. I'm working my way down it, thanks.

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sweetkitty · 24/08/2019 20:48

She won’t see you as evil they would be getting to an she shed be weaning them herself. Keep trying to catch Mum and the other kitten, please ask for help from Cats Protection it another charity to get Mum spayed before the poor thing is pregnant again (very quickly)

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HappyHammy · 24/08/2019 20:56

Maybe mum.will.come looking.for her kittens.. can you put them In a crate or.basket and leave the door open. Mum might be able to get in then you can trap her especially if she has the 4th one
Can the blue cross help with neutering
Whereabouts are you. Maybe we know if local rescues.

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Kittynapper · 24/08/2019 21:10

I just put food and water out for the mum and remaining kitten and the mum ran up to me, clearly hoping I was bringing back her kittens Sad I feel like a terrible person. I'll get a trap as soon as I can

I'm in Ireland so there's only the local animal rescue charity who are overwhelmed. I'll push them to lend me a trap asap but then I'll be paying for the spaying myself.

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HappyHammy · 24/08/2019 21:16

Can mum be coaxed inside, can you follow her to find the last kitten.

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RedCowboyBoots · 24/08/2019 21:16

I would seriously put them back if it were me. It seems very unfair and they are wild animals- just because they can be domesticated doesn't mean they need to be.

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RedCowboyBoots · 24/08/2019 21:16

Poor mother cat. Sad

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RedCowboyBoots · 24/08/2019 21:24

Hiding this thread as too upsetting. I hope you can reunite the mother cat with her kittens, op.

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viccat · 24/08/2019 21:27

They look about 8-9 weeks to me, fine to separate in this situation. Under the circumstances I think you're doing the right thing as they are just at the cusp of being too old to tame soon if they don't have human hands on them every single day. And you've got at least two girls there (the torties), who'll need to be neutered or you'll soon have a colony of cats in your garden.

Obviously it's not ideal to leave mum and she can also get pregnant again soon. Could you begin to feed her inside a cat carrier, that will make trapping easier?

Look up Kitten Lady's video on socialising hissy kittens on YouTube.

It's easy for people to say "call a cat charity to help" - I don't think most people realise just how inundated we (charities) are especially this time of year. There is just no space to put all the cats and kittens we get called to help every day...

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