We have a nearly 5yo cat M who lost her litter mate a few months ago in a car accident. She was really lonely so after some thought we got an 8 week old male kitten P in mid May.
P has his own room and was kept in there for the first week or two and then gradually introduced to the rest of the house. M was curious and initially they sniffed each other and that was about it. We did the scent swapping etc all as advised.
He was over enthusiastic so after a bit we used to either put him in his room or leave her in the kitchen with the cat flap.
P has not been out yet and was neutered earlier this week (he is 16 weeks now). Catflap is microchip and he is not yet registered on it.
Anyway, whenever he sees M he constantly jumps on her. She gives him a quick whack then when she gets naffed off we separate them. They are still never together without supervision.
We asked the vet for advice a few days ago who said that basically M needs to teach him his place and we need to let them get on with it and have a fight effectively. She said the longer we leave it we are just putting it off as at least now he is still comparatively small (2kg to her 4kg).
So the last few days we have left them to it a bit more and M is hissing at him and hitting him back but then she walks away. He just cannot atop then running after her and having another go. He does not seem to be getting the message. He also cannot resist her tail as she is long haired and it’s quite impressive (he is short haired).
When they initially see each other they still just sniff each other so it’s not a full on hatred but a direct result of his actions jumping on her (I think he is trying to play, he is desperate to play).
We do play with him a fair bit to try and tire him out but he has endless energy.
They are due to be going into a cattery together in two weeks! The cattery owner said unless they absolutely hated each other to put them in together as it may bond them. If we separate them it will undo any bonding.
We just don’t know what to do now. Both in terms of the over enthusiastic jumping and the cattery.
He needs to learn but how?? Help please!
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KittekatMP · 14/07/2019 10:36
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