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My cat passed away last night. . .

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MsHopey · 10/12/2018 06:15

My beautiful cat passed away last night. I'm feeling so emotional and miserable, it was so out the blue. He was a bit lethargic yesterday day time and by the evening he was gone.
We've had him 5 years but he was a stray we started taking care of and we've had him ever since.
We don't know much about his health or age but he's been a part of our family and it's hit me really hard.
He was mischievous and adventurous.
He was completely deaf and had very bad eye sight, we don't know but think this was due to being all white.
He always knocked things over at night time and made loads of noise and woke everyone up, but he didn't understand because he couldn't hear the noise himself.
He loved playing with my DS who would run around with a shoe lace so Cream could chase it. They also had really good cuddles together.
He passed away quite fast with cuddles off me and my DH as he went, I have no clue what caused it. Saturday he was his normal self, yesterday he was acting a bit strange, then at 7 he started crying a bit so we have him a cuddle, he started to struggle to breathe and he was gone by half 7.
I've barely slept and I can't stop crying.
I am an emotional person at the best of times, but this has just been such a sudden shock.
I now feel so guilty for being angry when he woke my son up in the night with his silliness round the house.
I just wish he didn't have to go.
This post is basically to let everyone know who reads it that I had a lovely cat who was family, who was naughty, brave, playful, cuddley, loyal and was very much loved.
I just wanted to take the time to share him with others and acknowledge his life. I know we gave him and safe and happy home for the past 5 years and he will be truly missed by everyone on this home.

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My cat passed away last night. . .
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Thecatisboss · 10/12/2018 06:22

So sorry about your lovely cat. He sounds such a character who had a wonderful life with you.

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DoraChance · 10/12/2018 06:22

Sorry to hear your news. What a beautiful boy Thanks

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JingleBellsSitDown · 10/12/2018 06:23

I’m really sorry to hear this, he sounds like a complete cutie Sad.

I often wonder why we do this to ourselves, we know we will outlive our pets then I remember that the joy they bring into our lives makes it worth it. You obviously have a lot of lovely memories of him so he will live on as a happy part of your history as a family.

Take care.

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MrsCatE · 10/12/2018 06:26

So sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy. He was obviously a much loved member of your family and you gave him a wonderful life. I'm sure he felt safe when he passed because he was in your and DH's arms. Flowers

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MsHopey · 10/12/2018 06:39

My little boy just loved cuddling with him so much. They were really gentle and lovely together.
It's hard to know they're not going to get that again.
He's too young to understand and I don't know if he'll know he's gone. But it's so heartbreaking.
You do wonder why we do this to ourselves because chances are we are going to lose them at some point, but I'm so glad we helped him 5 years ago.
He was cold and caked in mud and crying he was so hungry. We started feeding him, and have never looked back. When we moved house we took him with us and kept him as an indoor cat, I was too worried with his eye sight and hearing he'd struggle to survive at night time.
He loved sleeping in bed, cosying by the fire and just sitting on our laps.
He always deserved to be part of a family rather than outside and alone.
But it'll always hurt when they go.

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Cheshirecatty · 10/12/2018 09:56

Am so sorry. You obviously gave him a lovely home but it’s so hard to lose your family companion, we lost our hound a couple of years ago and my son still keeps his collar.💐

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Hamsterian · 10/12/2018 10:31

How sad! I’m really sorry.
It’s heartwarming how you describe him and I’m sure he was a very happy and well loved kitty.

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Vinorosso74 · 10/12/2018 11:41

That is so sad. He was well loved and cared for the time he was with you. It's awful when they die but it sounds like he went quickly without suffering. RIP beautiful boy Flowers

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hartof · 10/12/2018 11:48

I'm so sorry Flowers

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BrevilleTron · 10/12/2018 11:51

So sorry. He was loved and he knew it. I feel your pain. House is not home. So glad you were there when he went you must have been a great comfort to him. Flowers

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SoupDragon · 10/12/2018 13:41

Flowers

He was beautiful.

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TranquilityofSolitude · 10/12/2018 13:48

What a lovely boy - I'm so sorry you have lost him.

I have a white cat too, taken in as a stray just like yours. I can never believe that someone didn't want him, as he's so handsome and such a loyal companion. I said to a friend the other day that he's one of the best things that has ever happened to me, and she laughed and replied that I am without doubt the best thing that ever happened to him! It sounds as if you feel the same. It's lovely that you saved him.

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Ski37 · 10/12/2018 15:29

Sorry for your loss. Beautiful cat and the way you describe him is lovely, it really gets his personality across ❤️

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TheSpottedZebra · 10/12/2018 21:30

Sorry for your loss. He was very beautiful, sounded amazing and was lucky to have found you.

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ImNotKitten · 10/12/2018 21:38

Beautiful photos of your son and your cat. He sounds like he was the most lucky cat ever to have five wonderful years with you after living as a stray. I’m sorry you’ve lost him Flowers

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Intohellbutstayingstrong · 11/12/2018 18:58

It is the hardest thing. I am so sorry. You will feel better in time but for now the pain feels very real. He looks so beautiful. How lucky he was to find such wonderful love in his life. Big hug to you

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Ineedabiscuit · 12/12/2018 07:53

You gave him a wonderful home and so much love .
Mshopey I am so sorry. 💐

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BigcatLittlecat · 12/12/2018 07:55

The love you have for him shines through in your post. How lucky was he to have found you? Look after yourself today. Xx

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DCat · 12/12/2018 08:49

This is so sad. Rest in peace, beautiful boy.

You made him happy, MsHopey Flowers

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FedUpWithBriiiiiick · 12/12/2018 08:50

So sorry for your loss, it's heartbreaking Thanks

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