Hello all,
I'm new here but this thread seemed about right for my particular situation. A quick background: I'm 16 weeks pregnant, with my first. About two weeks ago, my husband and I adopted 2 cats from the shelter - we had already met them before the holidays and so it wasn't a spontaneous decision. I've had cats my whole life growing up.
So, the last two weeks, I haven't felt any sort of bond or connection to the cats like I normally do with animals. I feel distant from them, and resentful that the entire apartment smells like litter. I don't know why I feel this way - because beforehand I was very excited to pick them up.
However, now I don't know what to do. Since it's only been two weeks, I don't htink the impact would be so big if we brought them back or found them a new home. Are my feelings temporary? Or is there a chance I resent them even more after the baby is born?
Thank you in advance for all the advice :)
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toastyloki · 23/01/2018 12:14
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