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Affectionate cat?

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pisacake · 14/09/2017 18:44

I'm in Indonesia, there are a lot of stray/semiattached cats around. I'm not much of a cat person.

But there's a cat that's just turned up and sits on my balcony every morning. When I go out he comes and lies on my lap like a sleeping baby and also tries to lick my face.

I've made no attempt to bond with him he's just decided that. Also haven't fed him. I did offer him some cheese but he didn't seem interested.

Aren't cats supposed to be aloof?

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RosesShouldBeInTins · 14/09/2017 18:48

How cute! I think you'll find, he's your cat!

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LefDeppard · 14/09/2017 18:50

Cats tend to adopt people, not the other way around, I started randomly feeding a stray that kept showing up in my garden and 7 years later she's sat on my couch as I type this!

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YesItsMeIDontCare · 14/09/2017 18:52

Awww congratulations OP - you're a cat servant owner!

Pics?

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pisacake · 14/09/2017 18:55

Moi et mon chat.

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SentientCushion · 14/09/2017 18:57

Awwww well done on adopting your first cat

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pisacake · 14/09/2017 18:58

I think he likes things that are soft. I had a big pile of dry washing outside on a chair and he came and sat on a few mornings running and then on me when I came outside.

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SentientCushion · 14/09/2017 18:59

Are you going to keep him?

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ladymariner · 14/09/2017 18:59

My adopted cat follows me like a little furry shadow and talks constantly to me.... I didn't particularly want her but I now adore her Smile

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pisacake · 14/09/2017 19:00

Isn't that up to him?

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chewbacca83 · 14/09/2017 19:01

As a self confessed cat lady (and proud) I think you will find you now own a cat! Congratulation on your your addition 😂😍

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msrisotto · 14/09/2017 19:02

Cats love furring a fresh pile of laundry 😸

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YesItsMeIDontCare · 14/09/2017 19:07

He's lovely OP! I think he's decided you are keeping him. Grin

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shhhfastasleep · 14/09/2017 19:29

You've been chosen. It would be more ideal if you can get him to a vet for a check up, neuter and jabs. But a comfy lap and some love will be a great start.

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pisacake · 14/09/2017 20:23

He just turned up again when I went to put the washing out (!). He seemed to think it was a game when I was hanging it up and would dart from one side to the other getting in the way. I gave him a saucer of milk but not interested.

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Wolfiefan · 14/09/2017 20:25

No milk or cheese. Some cats can't process milk proteins (or something like that!) and it makes them ill.
I'm sure your new master will soon have you trained. Grin

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Winteriscomingneedmorewood · 14/09/2017 20:28

Wow what a handsome chap. . Has he a name yet or do you need suggestions?
Indiana Jones.
Indie for short. .
From Indonesia. .
Grin

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Fluffycloudland77 · 14/09/2017 20:50

Cats aren't aloof with their chosen human. I sounds like he's decided your the one for him.

This is my cat. He's never does this for anyone else.

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pisacake · 14/09/2017 20:57

Well he looks a bit like a pint of Guinness. Hence Martin?

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pisacake · 14/09/2017 20:58

Well he looks a bit like a pint of Guinness. Hence Martin?

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DancesWithOtters · 14/09/2017 21:30

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Allergictoironing · 14/09/2017 22:10

That's a very possessive paw in your pics, has definitely decided that you are a suitable slave.

Offer him/her fresh water, and any spare meat hanging around e.g. ham, roast chicken, until you can stock up on cat food Grin

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shhhfastasleep · 15/09/2017 08:12

Milk isn't very good for them but they love water.

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shhhfastasleep · 15/09/2017 08:14

Don't call him Martin McGuinness - too political (that's being soft for this thread). Not sweet. At all.

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EachandEveryone · 15/09/2017 09:04

Guiness is cute though.

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shhhfastasleep · 15/09/2017 09:48

Guinness is lovely. Reference to that scumbag is offensive- sorry for making the litter tray topic a bit less about cats momentarily. You will offend most people if you call him after Martin McGuinness.

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