Female cat approx 4 years old, usually delightfully aloof. She loves my daughter but rarely sits on anyone's knee and doesn't really like being stroked very much. We are just back from holiday and it's like we have an imposter! She disappeared for most of the week we were away. Friend who was feeding them said she only saw her once, whereas her brother greeted my friend twice a day and enjoyed being made a fuss of. All pretty usual behaviour for both of them. We didn't see female cat u til 2 days after we got back and now she is driving us mad! About 6am she starts miaowing really loudly outside our bedroom window (it's a bungalow) and scratching at the window trying to get in. They have a cat flap round the back of the house so it's not like she is locked out! If we let her in and take her through to kitchen & give her food she just goes out the cat flap and starts miaowing at our window again until we let her in and let her sleep on our bed!,, we have to give lots if petting before she'll settle. She has NEVER been allowed to sleep on beds before but I'm worried she'll annoy the neighbours if I leave her out there, also she is scratching my window!!! What can I do to get my aloof cat back because this is annoying! We have been on holiday before and she has never done this!
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