We have two Ragdolls which used to be exclusively indoor pets. When we had our children they didn't enjoy the idea of being cooped up with them and we were faced with the possibility of trialling letting them outside or rehoming. We opted to give them free reign to go outside. For one it's made virtually no difference. She goes outside and pees and the rest of the time is in the house. All fine.
My male cat however has decided he's a total wanderer. We can go days (and, on occasion) weeks and don't see him. He's obviously being fed elsewhere because we don't even see him everyday to come in and eat. And since the amount of food we're having to buy has decreased dramatically he's obviously getting grub elsewhere.
The issue is that we're moving home in six weeks. I see my options as:
- Go in search of him and (possibly forcibly) have to crate him and bring him with us.
- Try and find out who, if anyone, is feeding him and discuss them 'taking him on' (I appreciate cats choose their owners and if he's happy with another family I'd have to make my peace with that).
My concern with 1 is that he might be so stressed by being removed and put into a new home that he'd either leave and we'd never see him again or know what happened to him, or he'd be so stressed it would make him ill/pee everywhere/generally be very unhappy. I also think it would really stress out my female cat who's doing much better with her various skin conditions now he's not around so much.
My concern with 2 is that we might not find who's feeding him (although it's a small village we live in) or that it might be an old woman and, at nine years old, he's got a lot of life in him yet which his 'new owners' may not have. If it's who I think it is who is feeding him she looks like she'd 80+.
I know a lot of people will say 'well obviously it's 1 - he's your cat' but, as much as I love him, I don't want him to be stressed out if the possibility of an alternative is available.
Advice please. Sorry if I've left anything out - don't want to drip feed but not sure what else needs including...