My old boy is at least 13. I have had him about 9 years and he was in his prime when I got him, so must be 13 but could be 15 or more. He was only expected to live a few months because he has a heart condition.
He now has a rapidly growing kidney tumour. Surgery is not an option because of his heart and the other kidney is also failing.
He barely eats (a bite or two at a time). He is a bag of bones, which has happened in a matter of days (he was still hunting successfully 10 days ago). He still purrs (but much more quietly), jumps on the bed, enjoys being groomed. His hind legs are very weak and he has a slight neuro twitch as his uraemia progresses.
He can just about get outside still, but got himself disorientated last night and ended up in a nearby street and went into another house. He used to do this a lot in his younger days, which is probably how he ended up as a rescue. I was scouring the area, scared he had gone off to die. Eventually found a post on a local FB page and went and retrieved him, but they had already called the RSPCA who were on their way to fetch him. It terrifies me that they might just have taken him off without my knowledge even though he is chipped. I have now locked his cat flap so he can't wander again. But, he has never liked using a litter tray and will be miserable if I keep him inside all the time.
Everyone keeps saying I will know when the time has come. But I am struggling. I don't want him to get to the point where he is just comatose but I don't want to let him go too soon. The sick feeling last night that he might be whisked away, I feel like I need to let him go, so that it is on my terms.
I don't really expect anyone to be able to give me an answer. I just need to ramble about my precious boy. I am going to miss him so much.
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GnatsChuff · 09/05/2017 09:02
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