I am really sick of all the platitudes people keep telling me about 'a good innings' and that she passed quickly. They are not helping me.
I am completely heartbroken to lose my young cat (only 6) who was hit by a car. I don't know if she suffered for a long time after being hit, all I know is whoever hit her didn't stop and she was there in the road for some time before a nice person took pity and took her to the vet. And it was so close to my house and I didn't even know till hours later.
I feel so guilty and sick. I didn't get her home that night because she rarely comes when I call on nice spring evenings as she likes to hunt. But I could have called her and I didn't. She didn't call to come in either that evening (I have no catflap). Maybe things would have been different. I can't believe how much I miss her. I feel like I can't bear to live here anymore and see the road where it happened every day either. I've lost pets before, when they are old and it didn't feel this awful. I just feel so sad
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Kikikaakaa · 08/04/2017 23:35
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