Help: visiting male cat

[OrangeSquashTallGlass]

We have an indoor rescue cat. She was very very timid and stressed for a long time when she first came to us but we worked hard to help her feel safe here and she's like a different cat now.

About 3months ago we got new upstairs neighbours (old Victorian building converted into flats) who also had a cat. He comes down the fire escape from upstairs and sits right up against the bedroom window yowling. Our cat hisses at him and I think is stressed by it. He seems a very nice cat but is just a bit obsessed with her!

Anyway, my problem is this: over the past few days I've been able to smell cat wee in that room. It's definitely coming from the window (drafty sash window) but I can't see a wet patch or find anything. I think either he's spraying/weeing from the outside or maybe she is from the inside? Either way it stinks.

Help me oh wise cat owners! What can I do?

[msrisotto]

Hi, so although I can't solve my own problem, I have watched plenty of Jackson Galaxy . Have you got a blacklight? Might help you find out where it is coming from so you can clean it and act accordingly.

[StillYummy]

Is your cat neutered? If not then that may be making him curious. Other than that... How about some lion poo in a bag outside near the window? http://www.amazon.co.uk/Silent-Roar-Lion-Manure-Repellant/dp/B0002B7OT2/ref=sr11_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1459541198&sr=8-1&keywords=lion+poo+pellets

[cozietoesie]

Do you happen to know if the other cat is neutered?

[OrangeSquashTallGlass]

Thanks risotto. No blacklight but I'm 99.9% sure I've got rid of it all now. And she hasn't done it again since I went above and beyond with the cleaning (fingers crossed).

Yummy yes my cat has been neutered but I don't know about the neighbours cat. I keep meaning to strike up casual chat with them about him but we never seem to see each other and I don't want to go up just to say "I think your cat fancies my cat and it's causing a bit of bother"(!)
May have to invest in lion poo!

[msrisotto]

Also, Vicky Halls books are good, Cat Detective and Cat Confidential.

[StillYummy]

You could also try a feliway plug in to stop her feeling stressed. They really work for us and kept the cat happy through building work and new babies.